
I feel like you’ve had your head under a rock if you don’t understand this. But very simply putting pronouns in your bio signals support for trans people because it normalizes explicitly stating pronouns instead of assuming them. So this person is losing respect because it signals being liberal and supporting trans people
I’m also autistic and was aware of this lol, you don’t need autism to be unaware of things many others are aware of. The “issue” with supporting trans people, from the perspective of transphobes, is rooted mainly in fear I think. Trans people inherently go against convention by questioning their gender, something most societies tend to view as binary and concrete. Along with this, by viewing gender as “biological fact” and not something that’s fluid, it makes it easier to discriminate-
-against women or whoever the right views as women since they can never change their status to be those in power: cis men. So, by going against this core belief in binary and unchanging gender, it rattles their view of reality and that is extremely scary. So, it’s easier to simply deny and suppress trans people, no matter the cost, even sacrificing any kindness and empathy they might have