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Is it acceptable to approach girls in the dining hall
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Anonymous 6w

As long as you’re respectful and time it appropriately it’s acceptable

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Anonymous 6w

Depends on a lot tbh is she by herself? With one person? A big group? Is this 7 am and she's in pajamas or is it afternoon? Does she look sad? Are you actively disrupting anything by saying hi?

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Anonymous 6w

Why wouldn’t it be acceptable?

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah that’s about as neutral of a place you can get

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Anonymous 6w

yeah just keep in mind all other social dynamics apply. if she has headphones on, probably not the move. one time i was eating alone and there were a couple of guys who sat at my table, and we acknowledged each other but not much more than that, until i took out my headphones as i was wrapping up and one of them struck up a conversation. i didn’t realize until after i left, but it made me feel really respected.

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Anonymous 6w

Def acceptable. But you gotta see how much food is on her plate. Got approached in the dining hall once with my plate fully covered and I felt like such a big back and he had like barely one thing and I felt so insecure after

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Anonymous 6w

State your reasoning in the comments either way

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Anonymous 6w

Dude come on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Im usually not bothered by someone coming up to me as long as theyre respectful regardless but I know those are things that my friends would worry abt with someome coming up to them

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