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My gf and I are long distance but whenever I go to parties/bars every weekend she gets jealous and her mood changes but then apologizes the next day and it’s all fine. Is this normal/ok?
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Anonymous 2w

she seems like maybe she’s jealous, but it’s probably out of fear that you’re not being loyal or respecting the relationship

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Anonymous 1w

After reading your response to someone else, I can see why she gets upset.

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Anonymous 2w

I would talk it out. Make sure you both have clear boundaries of what behavior is ok and what’s not

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Anonymous 2w

She clearly doesn’t want you to go out without her

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Anonymous 2w

if you’re newly long distance, it’s fine. waves of jealousy usually get worse and better in phases.

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Anonymous 1w

That’s not normal or ok and the blame can actually be on either of you. If you’ve done nothing for her to assume some weird shit is going on then she has no reason to think this. If you don’t reassure her tho, I could possibly say it’s both of yall. Either way, she needs more trust (unless something happened before obv)

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Anonymous 2w

Well no shit she’s upset . Break up w her

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Anonymous 2w

She has 2 poles or extremes, Im not doctor but they dont call it Bipolar because of coincidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Wait what lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I bet you say all your exes are crazy huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I think she gets nervous because during our talking stage I was doing some dumb shit. And a month into our relationship I didnt know her boundaries and got a girls number from the gym (that I knew of from middle school) so she thinks I’m gonna do something like that again. She hasn’t ever told me I couldn’t go but I know if it involves girls she gets an attitude but then is fine the next day, as long as I text her when I get home, which sometimes I forget to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

She said she is trying to be better and apologized again and was crying cause she thinks I’m going to break up with her. But if you read my other comments that’s why she gets an attitude she said. But I’m gonna keep going out and I know she would never say no I can’t but yeah..

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