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I went on amazing first date tonight (grabbed drinks, literally had so much fun and good convo he’s 26), but have a second date scheduled tomorrow morning 😬 with a guy (he’s 20) I also had a good time with! But def different ways, help
#poll
cancel 2nd date
go on 2nd date
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Anonymous 1d

Go on the second date, then decide.

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Anonymous 1d

It’s just a first date. No need to go all in on a guy just from that

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Anonymous 22h

Definitely do the second date. The 2nd guy deserves a fair chance.

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Anonymous 1d

I’m having a hard time deciding because i genuinely had that good of a time tonight, like omg. He did everything I could’ve wanted and more and oh my god I think we hit it off way way way more than this second date guy. I’m also 3 years older than the second date guy🫥🫥 UGH. I think I might go get coffee with him still but maybe shut it dooownnn I’m not sure yet

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Anonymous 1d

i say go get a free coffee girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m interested but ehh younger than me is hard to get behind ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Then cancel it. Don’t waste his or your time if you’re not feeling it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

We rescheduled for tn and I’m keeping it honestly because I think he deserves a chance idk , we went on a double date the first time around (his friend was 24 & he was 20, that’s why the match even happened), so I feel like a one on one date would be more telling

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