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Would you still get into a relationship if you knew when it was going to end, but you didn’t know why? Let’s say it was more than a year too
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Anonymous 2w

so if i wanted to break up, we would be forced to stay together by some cosmic confluence until the year passes?

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Anonymous 2w

Most relationships end. It’s the memories and experience you get from it that matter. Like I KNOW the relationship I have with this girl is limited, yet I still love her.

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Anonymous 2w

Yes but have your eyes extra peeled for any red flags

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Why are u with her if yk it’s gonna end? Why not hope it’s going to last forever

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

You start getting to know them and u like them a lot. But with that you find out how long it’ll last. So it’ll vaguely happen around the time you know it’ll end. Like everything will fall into the right place for it to end when it does

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Don’t get me wrong, I do HOPE that it lasts for ever. I love the girl. But given the circumstances that I don’t feel like explaining, I doubt we’ll be in each others’ lives (in the same way at least) after this year. But I’ll cherish our relationship before then, and love her always before then.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

transience is what makes life beautiful. why get paid if you know youre going to spend it? why get a pet if you know itll die one day? why live if you know youll die one day? or is it in the act of consciously experiencing that makes life worth living, that makes a pet worth getting, that makes the work day worth working, and the relationship worth having?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

u just wouldn’t know why u would end up breaking up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Well said. If everything in life was permanent, there’d be no meaning. No struggle.

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