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Is it bad to be in a talking stage (texting, flirting, going on first couple of dates, hooking up, etc.) with two people at once, assuming you haven’t made either relationship official/exclusive?

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No, it’s your business

No, but you should disclose it

Yes, don’t talk to 2 ppl at once

Unsure

257 votes

Anonymous 11w

If you’re sleeping with anyone you should be disclosing your sex life and history as a precaution

Anonymous 11w

going on dates?? Ehhhhh. Sleeping with two people and leading both on without their knowledge?? Fuh nah

Anonymous 10w

It’s fine but only for like a week or two

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Anonymous 7w

I feel like there will be some serious gender differences in this answer

Anonymous

#2 11w

As long as youre using protection with both (or at least one lol) I’d say that’s your business until somebody brings up the conversation of exclusivity

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Anonymous

#3 11w

Didn’t mean to comment this as a reply to you lol

Anonymous

#3 11w

i just feel like its shitty unless you clear it up that youre seeing other people. I dont wanna have sex and get attached if i know the person im seeing has a roster. Just saying its an excuse used by people who are afraid of commitment.

Anonymous

#2 11w

I think if that’s a concern for me, that’s my responsibility to have that conversation. I don’t think people need to disclose it if there hasn’t been a conversation about exclusivity

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Anonymous

#5 10w

Oh wait I only read the first half of the list nah. I was just thinking talking, maybe a casual date or two