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Is it bad to be in a talking stage (texting, flirting, going on first couple of dates, hooking up, etc.) with two people at once, assuming you haven’t made either relationship official/exclusive?
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No, it’s your business
No, but you should disclose it
Yes, don’t talk to 2 ppl at once
Unsure
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Anonymous 6d

If you’re sleeping with anyone you should be disclosing your sex life and history as a precaution

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Anonymous 6d

going on dates?? Ehhhhh. Sleeping with two people and leading both on without their knowledge?? Fuh nah

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Anonymous 4d

i hate modern dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

As long as youre using protection with both (or at least one lol) I’d say that’s your business until somebody brings up the conversation of exclusivity

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Didn’t mean to comment this as a reply to you lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

i just feel like its shitty unless you clear it up that youre seeing other people. I dont wanna have sex and get attached if i know the person im seeing has a roster. Just saying its an excuse used by people who are afraid of commitment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

I think if that’s a concern for me, that’s my responsibility to have that conversation. I don’t think people need to disclose it if there hasn’t been a conversation about exclusivity

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