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Tea App?
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Anonymous 61w

Not bad because I’ve been rated on there but bad because data leak

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Anonymous 61w

I think it’s just like any other “are we dating the same guy” Facebook group or yikyak group (girl talk/for the boys).

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Anonymous 61w

am i old or something bc what is that?

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Anonymous 61w

s’that?

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Anonymous 61w

I think there are positive aspects to it and I wouldn’t fault someone for using it, but I think it probably does more harm than good (F, but lesbian, so looking at it from an outside perspective)

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Anonymous 61w

No one will care about this in a month it's just a fad

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Anonymous 61w

How do I find out if I’m on it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 61w

Sign up for an account as a woman (since the app doesn’t allow men on) and search your name

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 61w

You need to show your ID

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 61w

Ask a friend is the best way to

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 61w

But honestly you shouldn’t even ask a friend unless they’re already on it, the data security is so bad it’s dangerous putting your ID in there

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Anonymous 61w

Only first name tho cause

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Anonymous 61w

One argument for why it’s a good thing men weren’t allowed is because normally when men are allowed into spaces like that they end up posting CSAM, leaking nudes, and being general assholes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 61w

An argument for why it’s not a good thing men weren’t allowed is that it took women’s ID and addresses and didn’t secure them which made it really vulnerable to anyone trying to hack it and steal everything I genuinely wonder if this was coded with AI or something or if they had actual programmers who were really that incompetent with data security

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 61w

How would men being allowed make it any better?

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Anonymous 61w

It’s not really a women’s self-expression thing tho, it’s about “spilling the tea” on specific men. Sometimes that’s about safety or if he’s a cheater or something, sometimes it’s just any other gossip

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 61w

I mean I don’t think men should’ve been allowed in concept, my point is that they verified it was only women by having people upload their IDs and that information is all leaked now I think generally building apps around premises that require that kind of sensitive data disclosure is a recipe for disaster

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 61w

But you started your post with “an argument for why it’s not a good thing men weren’t allowed…” how would men being allowed on the app change how the app gathered information

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 61w

The app gathered that information to prevent men from being on the app So it’s an argument against restricting users in a way that requires that information

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