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19 college freshman guy, do I shave my head and go bald? I’ve done it before and didn’t hate it
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Anonymous 6d

YES 100% AS A GIRL WHO ALWAYS LOWK WISHED? Shave it. I’m 22. I dyed/bleached my hair in hs all the time and at 19 I bleached & lost hair and went extremely short. Lately I’m considering entirely shaving it bc what do I have to lose? The only thing holding me back is being in nursing school & the impression it may give to patients/peers. But honestly?? This post is making me reconsider, genuinely, what do I have to lose?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Mf I gotta network for a job and shit, being a bald 19 year old guy won’t help I don’t think

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Hair grows back , memories don’t. The year I spent with short hair said a lot honestly idk it was just such a story teller. Maybe I should do it again? And bleach and do patterns/emoticons. Idk, I say shave it , and if you would, do stupid shit like bleach it, color it, do patterns. Bc it’s only ever gonna grow out & those are the ends that get cut off. Fuck it bro. I’m convincing myself. Fr LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

If I’m honest, my grandma might actually kill ne if I went bald so I’m waiting for her to kick the bucket. I love her and I won’t let her see me like that. But I really wanna shave it again and get a few memories. But I won’t be the reason my grandma gets a heart attack and dies

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

:// waiting for her to kick the bucket will take too long 😭 i quit my job when i lost hair bc i was a server and was embarrassed. So I get it you gotta network but at the same time in this day and age? It’s pure personality & gives you talking points that I never acknowledged unfortunately. Idk, if I were you and I had my grandparents, I’d shave it and give them one last core memory of me scaring them 😭 only because I know my grandparents would be like “I can’t believe you” laughingly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

My grandpa would love it but my grandma was a hair worker. She spends more on her hair than she does the bills. She would actually have a heart attack if I did. Idk maybe I just wait till I’m older and it makes sense. Or I go jump in the swamp and get cancer, that works too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I definitely get it tho on the familial standpoint and kinda career ! It’s a hard decision but ultimately it’s who you are. Just be authentic to yourself, that’s what people want from what I’ve learned. And if they want you to conform? That’s not who you wanna network with/be associated with!! Family it’s different kinda, networking wise I don’t think so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

AAAA not the hairdresser grandma. Maybe she’ll be able to laugh about it. As long as it doesn’t literally kill her I think you’re fine 😭 being a hairdresser I think she’d be able to acknowledge it’s just YOU yknow

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