
Imma be real dude, there are way too many people on here that aren’t willing to accept reality. If you said “is it okay to wear a furry shirt and crocs to a first date”, most of these people would still say yes. If you bring a personal bowling ball on a first date, she will probably get a bad first impression from that
Yeah I’m seconding this, even if you aren’t being competitive I feel like it sets a weird dynamic for the other person of “oh, am I just an accessory to this other person’s skilled hobby?” I feel like for a date part of the fun is the activity itself even if you both suck/the game doesn’t go amazingly