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OnlyPolls 9w
Chat do I tell /talk to my mom that I want to take testosterone and change how I look? It’s genuinely feel like it’s a 50/50 with her
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YES DO IT
Nuh uh don’t do it
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Anonymous 9w

I just started it and then let them figure it out, a lot of people do bc sometimes if you don’t the resistance can be? It depends on if they’d be supportive - and even if they weren’t, if you think they’d actively try to prevent you from making your own decision abt it.

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Anonymous 9w

Try to bring up other trans people/trans news to guage if youre worried abt reaction! If it feels unsafe at any point please do not risk your wellbeing

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Anonymous 8w

Please rethink this. It’s going to fuck you up

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Anonymous 9w

yeah it’s better that she knows beforehand so she isn’t caught off guard when she starts noticing changes

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Why do you say that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I’m unsure, me and my mom are like best friends and I oddly think if she listened to what I had to say then she’d understand my perspective My own experience is that I just want to change my appearance to be male presenting, but idc if she still calls me by my original name or calls me “she” (I’m agender, idgaf about labels in general, I just know I want to be male presenting)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I almost think about doing this bc I’m her kid, I’m still me regardless of what I look like, I think she’d be the type of person to worry about what my grandparents would think or how my siblings would see it as

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