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is a partner who doesnt drink or smoke a turn off?
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yes, its kinda boring
no idc
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Anonymous 12w

where’s it’s a turn on

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Anonymous 12w

I would prefer one who doesn’t drink or smoke lol

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Anonymous 12w

Its only a turn off when they get controlling about your drinking and smoking

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Anonymous 12w

Turn off isn’t the right word, I would feel judged and probably wouldn’t mesh well with some one who never drinks or smokes. I drink like once a month usually at get together and same with smoking so it’s not like I’m doing it all the time, but I feel like I’d want to enjoy these things with my partner

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Anonymous 12w

i’d prefer someone who would drink with me, but it’s not a turn off per se unless they’re gonna sit there and judge me for it

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Anonymous 12w

Is a partner who doesn’t have a dependency on stupid shit that is genuinely bad for your body a turn off? There fixed your title.

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Anonymous 12w

It would be kinda sucky to never be able to enjoy a glass of wine over a fancy dinner with them but it’d be far from a dealbreaker.

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Anonymous 11w

A partner who drinks or smokes is a turn off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

You don’t have to have a dependency to just be able to enjoy it from time to time bestie

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

i think a partner who never drinks and smokes isnt for me. but i also dont want an addict. every once in a while is fun!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

“I could quit right now if I wanted to!”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

I drink like once a month lol. I smoke more but not more than like twice a week. Moderate usage isn’t absurd yall just sound like YOU have a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I kinda get having a problem with them never drinking but are we trying to normalize smoking…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

wdum smoking is totally normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

oh but different states might be different lol

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Anonymous 11w

I'm not a drinker because i'm paranoid about cancer. It really runs in my family and I feel that i've already harmed my body enough in other ways so i'd just rather not drink. Ur take is valid though

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

guys chill i literally don’t know a single person who doesn’t smoke it is not a crazy thing for me to say smoking is normal. source im from oregon

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