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If you and your significant other are both extremely overweight/obese, and you lose a lot of weight, but your partner doesn’t want to or is willing to try, do you break up with them?
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Yes
No
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Anonymous 10w

I wouldn’t be with them tbh

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Anonymous 10w

Stay with em bc that break up will motivate them 100% to be hotter and you won’t be touch em

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Anonymous 10w

We had this talk, and we dont care if either loses weight and one stays about the same. Though we’re both 20ish pounds overweight so maybe that changes things idk

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Anonymous 9w

Depends on how overweight, if it is becoming a health risk than yes. If they can’t put in effort to care for themselves, then how can you expect them to care for you in a relationship. To me it shows a lack of motivation and flippant attitude towards their physical wellbeing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Think 100 pounds

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I don’t know how either of us could even reach that point based on where we are. It would never be the reason, or trigger a breakup, but it would lower my tolerance for other flaws considerably.

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