
It’s like encouraged for me religiously. I don’t think I’m ready for marriage atm, it’s a major responsibility and prob the most important decision most ppl make. Once I’ve established my life more I’ll be ready to look. So I want to get married and raise kids, just not rn at this very moment unless I magically get better established in life
Same for me I want to fall in love and be married and have children but I’m not where I want to be in life for that. I’ve also heard that people were getting married young and then divorcing after a couple years bc in my religion u can’t date and stuff and I want something life long so I also think waiting avoids someone like that