Yes HOWEVER that doesn’t apply to things they don’t know about or have a means for 💀 like “if he wanted to take me out to a nice restaurant, he would.” When you know he doesn’t make enough money for that or if it’s a specific expectation you have of him that you’ve never said (like going to your doctors appointments with you, because he might just want to respect your privacy so never tried to go in with you)

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Sometimes a guy is just fucking stupid

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it applies in a lot of situations for sure. like if he wanted to ask you out he would. if he wanted to make x move he would. i think its generally a good rule of thumb for your everyday girl because if hes not doing x simple thing hes either not as into you or hes not a guy whos worth your time.

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100%. For men and for women. In this sorta scenario it’s usually just the partner wanting to feel seen and loved. Always act on the small things people.

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I feel like this is mostly used for things that are easy to do. Like if he wanted to text back he would. If he wanted to reassure u he would. If he wanted to not like OF girls posts on insta he could.

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Only ever true in actual relationships, but until things go official there's no basis for this

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If he’s not putting in any effort, it’s not worth your time. My ex and I were medium distance and he would literally never make any effort to drive to see me unless my town was on his way to something else. Atp it just feels like you don’t event want a relationship

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There are definitely cases where it is true but I don’t think the majority of time

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