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if you are rejecting someone purely on the basis of their sexuality you are biphobic, literally the entire point of the poll would love to see a valid argument against this actually bc every one ive seen is just biphobia
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Anonymous 6w

Every excuse someone gives on why they wouldn't date a bi person is biphobic - you DONT HAVE to date bi people but that does make you biphobic and its ok to admit that

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Anonymous 6w

Literally all the explanations people are giving are still biphobia. It's actually ridiculous that y'all can't see this

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Anonymous 6w

People who are scared of bi people? I fear there are better things to be scared/mad about?

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Anonymous 6w

Not a poll

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Anonymous 6w

I've seen multiple comments saying this would be biphobic. However, hypothetically, is it still biphobic if I have multiple friends that are bi, have no issue with bi-people, yet wouldn't date a bi-person? Is it not just a sexual preference? "Phobic" seems to imply all-encompassing in your life.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

No. Nobody owes you their bodily decisions or sexuality. They don’t need to date you or offer you an explanation. This is very entitled and policing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

That's what I'm saying, you dont need to date/sleep with anyone you dont want to, but the reasons people give for not wanting to get with bi people are biphobic - I also am not bisexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

There’s a difference between not being attracted to someone of a certain sexual orientation and having an irrational fear or hatred of bisexual people. I don’t owe any bi person my attraction

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

You don’t owe sure but if u are attracted to someone and then discover they are bisexual and suddenly become not attracted to them then you ARE biphobic. Simply because for their bisexuality to be a dealbreaker for you it must mean you hold some sort of prejudice against bi people subconsciously. Otherwise them being bi has absolutely no consequences or impact on the relationship. Who they have liked in the past has nothing to do with you and them now.This is js like saying no cuz of body counts

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Saying no due to body counts is valid. I ain’t dating some hoe that’s never gonna be satisfied. Same with bi people, I don’t want a bi person because they want something don’t have.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

This is literally biphobia you are a drooling moron. Bi people are not hoes who can't keep their eyes to themselves, I thought we got over this decades ago. We are just capable of being attracted to more than one gender. I certainly don't want your chopped ass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

You don't but your reasoning is based in biphobia dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

Saying no due to body count is kinda valid generally , but they way you are phrasing it, is covered in misogyny lowk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Nobody is saying you MUST date a bisexual person if they ask you out. Think of somebody you’d be attracted to and would date. If you then found out they were bi, would you still date them? Like yeah at the end of the day your body your choices but its important to understand why you make certain choices

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I didn’t realize people were like this 💀 gonna start asking people if they’d still date me if I was bi, since I refuse to date a phobe lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

Then I’d ask *why* you’re against dating a bi person? I said this somewhere else but it’s really important to understand where your preferences come from/why you make the decisions you do. Every time I’ve asked someone this their reasoning is rooted in some sort of bigotry

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