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Have you ever broken up with someone when it was the right thing to do. It hurt when she left with her cats, it felt like I was little and my parents divorced all over again. I felt crushed.
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Anonymous 5w

It'll get better my friend. Just keep moving forward

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Anonymous 5w

Yes. I felt like I was holding him back from what he truly wanted in life, I loved him so much that I let him go so he could pursue the life he wanted even though I knew I'd be miserably unhappy without him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It made me feel worthless and disposable. The same month I broke up with her, she began dating her new bf who she met and talked on discord for 10+ hours a day. I told her to let me know if anything bothered her and she didn’t talk to me. We grew apart. I felt like I lost my last chance of being in a family.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I can assure you that better people will come into your life, especially when and where you least expect it. You are worthy of love and I hope the right person for you shows you that soon.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

With my parents getting divorced, it made me never want to get married. This was the first time in years I considered it and loved her family as well. Thank you for your kind words.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I haven't dated since then, I still check his socials to see where he is in life and if he's doing okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

When I broke up with her, I haven’t been able to delete pictures, our Snapchat memories and she didn’t remove me from anything. I have pictures of us smiling and our cats trying to get along. I even took tons of cat pictures a few days before she took her cats and left.

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