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username4444

Is it okay for men to cry?
#poll
Yes (male)
No (male
Yes (female
No (female)
794 votes
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Anonymous 3d

It’s okay for anyone to cry because it’s natural and healthy

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Anonymous 3d

Y r men saying no

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Anonymous 3d

It’s definitely ok for men to cry during certain situations. Don’t let the enemy fool you into thinking otherwise

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Anonymous 3d

Jesus Christ these results are sad

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Anonymous 3d

pick me ahh post

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Because we know women lie when they say it’s okay for us to cry. I’ve known so many guys who’ve cried in front of girls and then the girl broke up because they lost attraction. One guy cried at his mom’s funeral, and she left him the next day.

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

I mean the votes for women are currently 30-1, not all men or women promote toxic masculinity

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

I’ll take stories that never happened for 100

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Anonymous replying to -> eddyis2live 3d

You’re in denial. Millions of men can tell you this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Of course but that’s not what society standards say

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Anonymous replying to -> eddyis2live 3d

So then be the change you want to see

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

They’re lying. If they saw their bf cry it would be a massive turnoff

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

Then you guys need better friends if that’s all it takes 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

I’ve seen my FIANCÉ (man) cry many a time. Good to know he has emotional depth and is secure in his masculinity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

There’s Always exceptions to the rule

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Wdym. It’s the girls that do this.

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

It’s so easy to plug your ears and accuse people of lying when reality doesn’t confirm your beliefs, isn’t it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I’m actually agreeing with you. I’m saying that it’s ok for anyone to cry but society lies to us and says only women can be emotional.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

How so? Seems like good results to me 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> eddyis2live 3d

That’s true, which is why we need to be the change we want to see

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Anonymous replying to -> eddyis2live 3d

Who’s the enemy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I thought it would be funny to say no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Literally wrong, most votes for no are women

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

Bros focusing on the 14% saying no over the 84% (315/399 as of posting) saying yes and when only 15% (29/195) of women said no. Reach of the century my guy. You’re making yourself sad not women

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

And most votes for yes are also women, so now what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

They’re lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Okay then. When you cry around your girl, if you can even find one, lmk how it pans out. It won’t end well for you. There’s a reason why these whole men don’t cry stuff came about in the first place. Because women started it, and then men taught their boys it so that women wouldn’t reject them. Sad but true!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3d

Btw when i said “if you can even find” a gf, that’s not insulting you, it’s referencing the fact that over 70% of young men are now single compared to 30% of young women. It’s impossible to find a girl now, good luck!

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 3d

You’re literally creating your own delusions to make yourself feel better about being wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

You think women don’t lie?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Because at the end of the day it shows weakness. People can say its ok to cry, but those same people are going to judge you if you cry. If youre a man and you admit you cry you will be judged heavily. And IMO theres healthier ways to manage emotions then balling up and crying. Its pathetic to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

That sounds like a you problem that’s been internalized by toxic masculinity

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2d

"toxic masculinity" is one of the most stupid things Ive ever heard unless a man is abusive or toxic he aint got no toxic masculinity so how about you stick with your yankee views and we stick with ours

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

That’s why it’s called toxic masculinity, it involves or leads to bigotry and/or abuse. Toxic masculinity is telling men they’re not allowed to show their emotions in a healthy way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Why is crying healthy? If you have an emotional problem then sitting on your ass and crying isnt gonna solve anything. You have to make actual change if you want to get better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP YOU ARE SO MORONIC GET OFF OF THE INTERNET

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

When I typed that comment the results were like 50 percent no, they got better

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