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Just curious
#poll
Agree (non Christian)
Disagree (non Christian)
Agree (Christian)
Disagree (Christian)
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I genuinely think christians as a whole are unintentionally and unknowingly better at pushing people away from God than towards God, even the non extreme ones
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Anonymous 5w

For me, as someone with religious parents who always bring “god” or “god’s plan” into conversations, I 100% agree. I find it pretty insufferable when people try to perpetuate their values onto you. People are allowed to live their lives and believe what they believe, but I feel it crosses a line when you’re openly pushing your beliefs onto those around you. People should be allowed to find their own path in life, and people shouldn’t attempt to guide others to follow the path THEY chose.

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Anonymous 5w

The core values of Christianity are about loving God and loving others and the belief that Jesus died for our sins because we can’t save ourselves. Christianity provides a moral foundation for society to follow because we as people ultimately fail when we have nothing else to look to other than our own desires. What I’m saying is that most Christians are just trying to live peaceful lives but because of sin, there will be people who use the religion to gain control over others.

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Anonymous 5w

Nope. I’m Jewish and I disagree pretty strongly. Just because I don’t believe in their religion’s tenets doesn’t mean that them holding those tenets pushes people away from it. If anything, I’d argue that half-heartedly following the religion betrays that one doesn’t truly believe in it, and therefore pushes people to atheism/agnosticism. Again, not that there’s anything wrong with being an atheist, just that for Christianity, following the religion shows more devotion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I’m not saying them existing as Christians, I mean when they try to push you towards it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I agree with this, but saying EVERYONE as people ultimately fail without feeling connected to something greater is just false. I literally feel no connection to political parties, religion, etc. Anything that feels like it’s above myself or my control is simply boring, uninteresting, and limiting to me. So I agree for the sake of others, but not for myself, at least. Source: my parents are devout christians, and I never took any interest

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

So for me, it isn’t really an issue of religion, it’s an issue of having beliefs forced on you. I very much value autonomous choice in life; if you make a choice to join a religious org yourself, then by all means do so. If you were indoctrinated into it, I struggle to believe it was something you really wanted, and find your motives in joining to be perplexing, is all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I disagree with this solely because nobody is perfect. Only relying on yourself will eventually lead to failure. We’d be in a utopia if our leaders made the right decisions. Nature is a prime example of this because we screw things up every time we try to control it. There are so many things out of our control and we need to accept that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

No no no. I’m not saying I’m only relying on myself. I’m saying I won’t rely on something that feels above my level of existence. Religion is too existential. I’d much rather rely on the people closest to me, for instance, than outsource myself to any cause that’s above me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

That’s what I’m getting at. I have no desire to feel apart of something bigger than me and my close circle.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I guess I get what you are saying. If you are not religious though, isn’t there at least some respect for nature though, because we are part of it and our fate is in nature’s control?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I will recognize and respect your point on nature, here. However, as I’ve been saying, I honestly don’t really care lol. Anything that feels abstract or above me or out of my control is plainly just something I don’t have any ambition to deal with. So I respect it, and your point about it, I just… don’t really mind because I have no control, you know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I’m very much someone who grounds their identity in the self, so worrying about things that go beyond myself or beyond my social ecosystem just never really sat with me. Not that I don’t love discussing my perspective ofc because I do. I just don’t really care to worry about it because it’s out of my hands. I guess this is a form of nihilism now that I think about it lol.

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