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my bf likes this girls post that he used to be in love with, fantasized about being with her, sent her money on her bday while with me, etc. is this reasonable for me to be upset at and he could just stop liking the insta photos?? Or am I being irrational

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277 votes

Anonymous 1d

Break up I hate when people ask stupid questions abt their obviously terrible partners, you know what we're gonna say!

Anonymous 1d

Why haven’t you broken up with him?

Anonymous 1d

He is still in love w her and using you to distract himself from that, please leave him and find peace queen

Anonymous 1d

1) If they don't have an active platonic friendship that isn't hidden from you, then sending her money is weird. 2) "Fantasizing about her"... We need more context. Why did he share this with you and how did that conversation go? 3. Liking posts, can be excusable if they ended on good terms. But if she broke up with him, then he's probably down bad.

Anonymous 1d

girl break up with him, the fuck??

Anonymous 22h

Liking insta photos in a vacuum is harmless and normal, but odd if they broke up, and very odd given everything else you’ve described. I don’t think asking him to stop liking her pics is going to remedy the real problem.

Anonymous

#4 1d

I see a possiblity where your feelings are rational and a possibility where your feelings are irrational. But in the scenario where your feelings irrational, it seems to me that there's a communication error where he's not being transparent or constant about how he feels about his ex.