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i’m having a birthday dinner with my extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles). should i invite my bf? we’ve been dating for 4 months.
#poll
yes invite him
no do not invite him
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Anonymous 4w

Depends how confident you are in him. I would invite him bc I wouldn’t be dating him if I wasn’t so sure but like idk to each their own

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Anonymous 4w

My 2 month bf is meeting my mom soon

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Anonymous 4w

Depends on your BF, if he’s gonna act and present well it’d be a good idea to if he won’t then probably shouldn’t. And obvi don’t if you don’t think it’ll last but it sounds like you’re planning to go the distance so doubt that applies

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Anonymous 4w

I brought my two month at the time bf to my cousins birthday and he was great with my family and made an amazing impression with everyone, so I say do it if you have the opportunity

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Anonymous 4w

Idk four months isn’t very long. Personally I would wait at least 6 months but it really just depends on how you feel about the relationship. I know people thought hat have showed their family like 8 different guys because they show them off way too early when the relationship isn’t that steady. So I guess just be sure this is a steady relationship and you two are serious

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Anonymous replying to -> cert1f1ed 4w

i’m really confident with him, definitely see a long term relationship or marriage so i want him to meet my family

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yes! did u feel like it was too soon? i’m not judging (i would’ve had everyone meet him 1 month in if i could) was it awkward?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

he definitely will be so polite. he’s the best. & yup i see myself marrying him so i want him to meet them!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

At first it was a little awkward but after about an hour things were smooth, usually I’d say that’s too soon but it worked out

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