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To live home or move out and get cut off? I live home and pay ~800 for rent plus buying groceries. I live with my 4 siblings plus parents. If I move out, it’ll be a one bedroom for 1700. My mom will cut me off if I move out and “I can’t come back”
#poll
Move out; fuck them
Live home
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Anonymous 1d

I tried moving out my 1st year of college and she threatened me with the same thing bc “you think you’re grown when you’re not”. I’m post grad now and she’s saying the same thing when she’s the one always asking ME for money like…

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Anonymous 19h

This is toxic and not normal. You need to get away. You are being manipulated. Dont feel guilty about living your own life.

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Anonymous 14h

Can you not find some roommates? That’s a lot of money you paying to be in misery

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Anonymous 18h

based on the answers you gave for the poll, i think you already know the answer. i know it can be difficult and scary to take that leap but it doesn’t seem like it’s working out for you and you’ll be happier in the long run and get to do whatever you want

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Anonymous 1d

Would paying rent and other things out on your own be comfortable for you?

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Anonymous 18h

Misclicked and meant to hit move out - they already don’t support you financially so you not having to pay your own parents rent only seems like a bonus

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Anonymous 23h

That sounds miserable

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Anonymous 19h

Why would your mom cut you off if you move out??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I feel like you’d suffer less if you move out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Yeah. I made about 5k a month after taxes and only have a cat. I usually just work and stay home and repeat

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Then you should move out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

Parents who are already controlling and manipulative double down on threats like this when you get closer to being out from under their control in like a last ditch desperate effort to keep you from being independent

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