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In your personal opinion, do you think sx work is empowering?
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Anonymous 2w

Absolutely not. It’s the most degrading thing you could possibly do.

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Anonymous 2w

Not empowering, but not degrading either. It’s just sex

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Anonymous 2w

*only asking because ik there’s discourse around it + my lecture is having an upcoming debate on this

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Anonymous 2w

If it’s of your own volition and you’re happy, yes, of course it is! Anything that empowers you is empowering. However, most of that industry is plagued with creeps and abuse, so I’m doubtful most people feel the way I described abovr

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Anonymous 2w

I think it depends on a number of factors, if it’s done as a free choice I think it can be, but it’s often not a free choice at all. Which I think is where a lot of the issue lies. Sex work is often exploitative, but so is most work in general. You look at these things like “Onlyfans Promotion/Management Companies” and it’s hard to see anything other than a pimp. It’s complicated, but I think it’s hard to make a black and white judgment about the entire field of sex work.

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Anonymous 2w

Fuck no

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Anonymous 2w

I think it is like. Absolutely neutral. It could be empowering for one person and disempowering for another. It could just be a job.

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Anonymous 2w

Not anymore empowering than a regular job.

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Anonymous 2w

i mean i think it depends on the person and why they’re doing it. if it’s done out of desperation then no, if it’s done because someone is comfortable in their body and has no problem having sex for money, then yeah

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Anonymous 2w

If you're under a contract definitely not. If you're independent maybe

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Anonymous 2w

It’s really hard to say. I think the question of empowerment is less important than the question of pleasure and happiness, which could or could not be connected to the feeling of empowerment

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It normalizes erotic behavior and leads to a desensitized society, which in turn, leads to people having to seek out dangerous and harmful sexual behavior in order to feel turned on. Not only that but it IS degrading, as it’s a way to monetize people objectifying themselves. While bad on its own, it also teaches people to objectify others subconsciously.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

“Empowering” is intrapersonal though, so ya can’t really make bold, generalist claims.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yall why did I get a downvote I’m literally right lol. Nothing about what I said wasn’t straight, complete facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Plenty of things that make people feel happy are not empowering and actually harmful. Sex work especially.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Sex work is bad, and if someone feels like they’ve gained power from doing it or “feel powerful doing it” (by the modern usage) then they’re living in a delusion they’ve invented to cope with the horror they’re putting themselves through.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

But like… empowering is still intrapersonal. Regardless of what it means societally or literally or whatever you want to say, empowering is still an intrapersonal label. To extrapolate a bit to prove my point: most serial killers find what they do empowering, but you would argue it’s horrific and disgusting, right? It’s the same idea. Who are we to judge what’s “empowering” to someone else? You can express your moral beliefs, but you can’t control how someone feels.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

ok I was on your side until that serial killer argument man that is truly an awful point

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

But why is it an awful point lol? It’s just an argument extrapolation. The point holds too. We can judge morals, claim delusions, etc. but at the end of the day what’s empowering to someone isn’t up to us. That’s the idea lol. I’m not equivocating sx work to serial killers

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I think you’re discussing a different meaning for empowering that isn’t in the scope of this question. When someone asks “is sx work empowering” they’re not asking if it SOCIETALLY beneficial or will improve your standing/reputation. They’re talking about a feeling. So if sx work makes someone feel happy and confident, then it is objectively empowering TO THEM

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

OP imo this is a horrible debating topic for a class lol. There is no clean yes/no answer, and it depends on perspective. Anything is empowering depending on your perspective. People will probably bring up arguments like “but it isn’t good!!” or “it’s structurally not liberating” but those are non sequiturs. Those are a different conversation entirely

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

That’s an interesting argument you got there 💀 I’m not going to waste my time arguing the semantics of “empowerment”, my main point is that sex work is objectively wrong and isn’t empowering even if someone feels like it is. Feelings are subjective, I agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Okay, so I want you to understand my argument then lol. I guess it’s technically semantics, but empowerment seems to be pretty clearly defined in questions like this as “self-confidence”. You can believe anything is objectively wrong or objectively harmful, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t empowering for the person doing it. My argument is basically that something being “objectively wrong” in this case is a complete non sequitur: it just doesn’t matter bcz it isn’t being asked

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Actually no, it’s not objectively empowering. Feelings are subjective and not based on objective reality. And I bring up societal impact because OP said they’re going to be discussing sex work for a lecture and usually in discussions people bring up subjective feelings of empowerment like they’re the end all be all. I’m hoping to showcase how that’s objectively not true due to its impacts. (Societal and personal)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I understand your argument, but I have to replies: 1. Empowerment has two definitions, one referring to gaining power, one referring to the feeling of gaining power. By the first definition of gaining power, I stand by my argument that sex work is not empowering. But if we’re going off of the second, feelings based, one I would also argue that since it’s not a feeling that matches their reality it’s nonsensical. I’m not saying they don’t or can’t feel that way, I’m saying they shouldn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

2. I bring up the objectively wrong argument because OP mentioned that they're going to be discussing sex work for a lecture and usually in discussions people talk about multiple factors not simply what one person may feel about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

*two

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Lately, we’ve been able to choose our topics in class (vote on them). I didn’t vote on this out of the plethora of other topics. sooooo take it up with my classmates lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Capitalism innately objectifies you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

No slavery and prostitution are both illegal in the U.S. (In most places at least. I’m still advocating for prostitution to be abolished digitally but unfortunately society’s going to make that difficult.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Do most jobs not treat their employees as expendable drones that exist only to squeeze labor out of?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

Puritans who can’t fathom that adults might enjoy consensual sex busting their asses off downvoting any comment that expresses this sentiment

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

fr

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