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My bf and I have been together a year. I graduate in May and was planning on moving to his hometown where he lives. He is not for sure about me yet or me moving but also doesn’t know if he can do distance any longer. What would you do? I feel stuck.
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Talk with him more
End the relationship
Other ideas
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Anonymous 1w

he just straight tells u he’s not sure abt u and u accepted it??? why is he even in the relationship u deserve someone who’s sure about u and loves you cuz the fact that ur willing to move for him shows how much love u can give to someone deserving of it

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Anonymous 1w

End it. You’ve been dating for a year and he’s still not sure about you? You’re wasting your time girlie

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Anonymous 1w

Im ngl it sounds like mentally he’s already moved on

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve been going to the same thing, but he did graduate last May and financially it makes more sense for us not to live together if it’s about finances, it makes sense but I would really talk to him more about it. DME if you want.

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Anonymous 2w

Any ideas on what more to talk about? I don’t know what else to say to him, he just is not sure about me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

there’s nothing else to say! why are you willing to move your whole life for him and he’s unsure about you? he isn’t even sure of distance and he’s receiving an opportunity to physically be with you and still can’t choose you. you’re embarrassing yourself!

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