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If you found out your SO was queerphobic, would you break up with them?
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No
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Anonymous 11w

And I hope everyone who says no understands that makes them equally as bad

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Anonymous 11w

I’m straight but if I found out that they hated members of my family then they’re dead to me. Being antihuman rights is unlovable.

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Anonymous 11w

What’s the definition of queer phobic?

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Anonymous 11w

No? Its not hard not to in todays climate

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Anonymous 11w

If he’s not at least a little bit I’m breaking up w him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Prejudice against the queer community. I fear that’s common sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Well duh but like what constitutes prejudice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Prejudice is “An irrational attitude of hostility directed against an individual, a group, a race, or their supposed characteristics” Or “An adverse opinion or leaning formed without just grounds or before sufficient knowledge”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

No it doesn’t. Love isn’t something you break off because of a disagreement, and just because someone has hatred in their heart doesn’t mean you abandon them. Whether or not you can accept other people’s faults is actually one of the greatest tests of your character

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

And a great test of your character is your ability to stand by your own beliefs and morals in the face of challenge. Im perfectly capable of putting aside disagreements, homophobia and queer rights is not a simple disagreement.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

I cannot love someone who hates other people for simply being alive as they are. Hating someone for being trans or gay is equal to hating someone for being black. Do you excuse racism as well?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

You don’t get to decide who you love. You’d know that if had ever been in love

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Absolutely wrong. You are not smartest person in the world. Forgiveness is always the most important attribute someone can have. Accepting that you don’t know everyone’s story, and that hatred can exist for any reason. That’s my belief

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

So I have an adverse opinion of the queer community, but it is not before sufficient knowledge or hostile in any way. Is this queerphobic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

If there are eleven n@zis at a table and you sit with them, entertaining their ideas, there are twelve n@zis at the table If you’re not actively taking a stance against someone’s harmful views, you are actively enabling them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Nobody is asking you to agree with them. But treating them as inhuman because they have harmful beliefs makes you no better than them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Breaking up with someone for being a prejudice and hateful person is not treating them as sub human just say you have a homophobic partner and gtfo with this devils advocate bs 💀💀 you genuinely sound deluded

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Do you A: have an adverse opinion of a couple people who happen to be in the community for reasons OTHER THAN their identity B: have an adverse opinion of THE WHOLE community BECAUSE of their identities? C: have an adverse opinion of a couple people in the community BECAUSE of their identities? If A, you're not queerphobic. If B or C, you are queerphobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Breaking up with someone isn’t treating them as inhuman. Staying with them IS agreeing with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

No, it’s not. Staying with them is staying with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Breaking up with someone for their beliefs is absolutely treating them inhumanly. Get out of here with your feigned outrage. You want to hurt people who have beliefs you don’t agree with and you’ve catered your opinions so you can justify doing it. You’re just a baby, and you don’t care at all how your actions impact the world

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Ok ok I just looked up the definition of adverse, and I do not want to cause harm to the community. A better word would be I have an averse opinion of the community. And yes, as a whole, though this does not lead me to treat anyone in the community differently at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Says the one defending prejudice and homophobia. Right. I just dont like associating with people who dont have any regard for others bc of things they cant control and that have no effect on them anyways but if dick riding homophobes helps you sleep at night then by all means 🤗

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Ad hominem. Very much expected from someone like you. You don’t give a shit about racism and homophobia, if you were born 100 years ago you’d be exactly the type of person attacking anyone different from you the same way you’re doing it now. You don’t see the difference because the people you watch on social media love to justify their hate, but hate is always the same, no matter who it’s against

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

“You can’t choose who you love” baby why are you stealing gay campaign slogans to make for your ice cold take

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

would you date someone that hates the amish

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

If you fell in love with someone who turned out to be a pedophile you mean to tell me that you instantly be revolted and fall out of love with them? Would you still love someone if they were a practicing necrophiliac?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

A belief is different from human rights. When that belief crosses over and hurts people outside that faith it’s no longer valid. For example religions that believe in child marriage. That’s affecting someone else’s free will and quality of life. A belief is not eating shrimp or hooved animals.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

you definitely can. dont use some excuse that you cant control who you fall in love with for standing with your morals and values

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Reacting to who a person is is the most human thing out there. It’d be far more inhuman to act like the actual person is just an accessory to the apparently hollow body you’re “in love” with, even if that means acknowledging the shitty person as a shitty person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

u want ur man to be a little homophobic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

You are, in fact, queerphobic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Damn no cookie for me ig

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