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OnlyPolls 1d
Just found out the whole month my talking stage was staying at my apt every night, he asked a girl to coffee to study, txting n calling his past hook up & received a nude. We have been dating now for a month, I saw this in his phone. Idk what to do:(
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I would end it
I would stay
Forgive him
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Anonymous 1d

How is this even a question I don’t think you’ll ever be able to trust him after this

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Anonymous 1d

Ah yes, I’ve encountered this kind of man before. This specimen is called a hobosexual, they sleep with anyone they can in order to get a place to live. They tend to be messy, jobless, unskilled, and are often serial cheaters. You dodged a bullet babe, I lost a whole year to one of these wallet drainers. Boot his ass 🥰

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Anonymous 1d

The real question is if you should kill him or not

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Anonymous 1d

Does HE know yall are in an exclusive relationship?

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Anonymous 1d

Don’t hate the player hate the game

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ppl like you are the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

The player is the one causing the problems, stop making excuses for shitty behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Yeah I don’t think I can.. he’s just trying to claim it was before we were official so it doesn’t count as cheating. It’s just hurtful bc literally he was staying at my house every night.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

He was in your home, probably in your BED, texting/sexting other women. Official or not is a whole different convo on loyalty and boundaries, thats too blatant of disrespect to forgive

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Hobosexual 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

EXACTLY what I keep thinking!! I just know he was in my bed doing this while I went to school or work, it HURTS. Like he has been such a great bf until I looked in his phone and saw that and idc if we weren’t official and we literally were having sex multiple times a day so it actually makes no sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

They’re surprisingly common nowadays

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