Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
what would u do if your bf asked for a girls number, played a sport at a facility together without telling u, randomly reaches out to a girl he used to like for a long time but now are “friends.” idk if im being insecure or dramatic
#poll
Stay, who cares
Leave
Give another chance
401 votes
upvote 5 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

Him not telling you is the biggest thing. He knew what he was doing was wrong

upvote 37 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

Definitely a problem, but it could be resolved with a conversation and mutual understanding of what’s acceptable

upvote 25 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

That’s crossing boundaries you surely have and shows he doesn’t have boundaries where there needs to be. All bad. Time to leave ✌🏼

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

Ur not being dramatic

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

also the playing together at the facility was a different girl that is his friend that apparently likes him

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

If he told u id say give him another chance but as a man theres a reason he didnt tell you 🤷🏻‍♂️

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

these are all separate girls btw..

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

End it. I’m so sorry he did that to you but this guy seems kind of like a dirtbag

upvote 16 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

We did have a convo about getting the girls number and keeping in touch with that girl that he liked for a long time and he understood what was wrong about it. After we had this convo, a few months later he hid that girl from me that likes him and he went to the facility with.

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Time to move on, then. He clearly doesn’t respect boundaries or is too much of a social butterfly to be able to handle a legitimate relationship

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ah yeah then break up

upvote 4 downvote