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OnlyPolls 18h
would it be a bad idea to reach out to an ex-friend if our friendship ended bc of me
#poll
yes
yes but do it anyway
no
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Anonymous 18h

I'm not expecting us to become friends again but I've hit a huge milestone that I wouldn't have been able to without her. It's been 3-4 years since we've last spoken

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Anonymous 12h

If it’s been more than a year since y’all talked, walk away

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

What’d you do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Really depends why your friendship ended, if you do text definitely include an apology

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

it was a cumulative lack of effort on my part, we'd met online way before I started college and once I started college + met new people, I started unintentionally started talking to her less. I didn't mind it but she wanted to talk more (which is fair I feel like we went from 100 to 0 fairly quickly) and it officially ended bc I forgot her birthday + the plans we made to call because another friend both me tickets to something. There are some other factors that made the situation +

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

play out how it did but that's the crux of it

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