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Disabled people (physical and hidden disabilities), do you prefer disabled or differently able? (I myself prefer the former but i want to see others options)
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Disabled
Differently Abled
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Anonymous 20h

(This is not directed at you). I have neurodevelopmental and physical disabilities. Do not call me “differently abled.” I quite literally cannot do certain things. Disabled is not a bad word. It is a descriptor. It’s not my problem if you view disability as a bad thing or something that needs to be sugarcoated.

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Anonymous 20h

i don’t really care about the term, i care about the accessibility

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Anonymous 20h

In my opinion (i have ADHD) the people who started differently abled are majority not disabled themselves. I feel like differently abled came about because they think the word disabled is dirty or bad (like how the r word is perceived now). I feel like it comes from a place of unconscious ableism. Also it starts to minimize the struggles that disabled people go through. And don’t get me started on “Your disability is your superpower.” like I’m a child. It also minimizes struggles of disability.

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Anonymous 18h

“Differently abled” just tries to softens the lived experiences of disabled and stigmatizes disability

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Anonymous 16h

Disabled is a perfectly fine term. Differently abled doesn’t do justice to how severe some disabilities are.

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Anonymous 17h

“Differently abled” came from ablebodied people. I’m Disabled. It’s not a bad, shameful, or negative word.

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Anonymous 16h

I will fight anyone who calls me differently abled. It sounds so condescending

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Anonymous 12h

Lowkey, cannot run, can barely walk, can barely dress myself. That’s not differently abled, that disabled. I can’t do things that normal people can do. I struggle to breathe sometimes. I’m not different, I just can’t

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Anonymous 20h

I never thought of myself as disabled but apparently two of the things I have are considered disabilities so who knew

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Anonymous 18h

Neither. Mine is hidden (epilepsy) and I’d never ever call myself disabled or differently abled

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Anonymous 11h

What does this question mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Agree with this. “Different abled” implies there’s no challenge or need for accessibility, like someone being taller or a faster runner or not getting sunburnt as easily. Disability more accurately implies there’s something that you want/need to do but cannot/struggle to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

my experience exactly! whenever i get “corrected” by ppl when i refer to my learning disability, it always feels dismissive towards my needs, especially bc for so long i went undiagnosed bc i wasn’t struggling enough for it to be noticed. i’ve done a lot of work to improve at things im impaired at, but i still have a harder time doing those things than others

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

Why would you never call yourself disabled?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

Because my epilepsy is controlled, and I don’t want special abilities or capabilities that others deserve more than me. I don’t deserve special treatment compared to the next person. I also say this bc I’ve never been treated like someone w a disability either

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8h

Others are not more deserving of “social capabilities” than you. You deserve whatever you need to have equitable access (also saying you’re disabled unfortunately doesn’t automatically give you these things anyway🫤). People with invisible disabilities are almost never treated like they’re disabled. If you are impaired or limited due to a condition, you are disabled and it’s okay to call yourself as such

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8h

I understand why you don’t want to, but it is absolutely okay to call yourself disabled and does not take away from those that are more disabled.🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

Side note: just because it’s controlled/treated does not mean you’re no longer disabled. People who need glasses are still disabled even though they can see with their glasses on

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