
(This is not directed at you). I have neurodevelopmental and physical disabilities. Do not call me “differently abled.” I quite literally cannot do certain things. Disabled is not a bad word. It is a descriptor. It’s not my problem if you view disability as a bad thing or something that needs to be sugarcoated.
In my opinion (i have ADHD) the people who started differently abled are majority not disabled themselves. I feel like differently abled came about because they think the word disabled is dirty or bad (like how the r word is perceived now). I feel like it comes from a place of unconscious ableism. Also it starts to minimize the struggles that disabled people go through. And don’t get me started on “Your disability is your superpower.” like I’m a child. It also minimizes struggles of disability.
my experience exactly! whenever i get “corrected” by ppl when i refer to my learning disability, it always feels dismissive towards my needs, especially bc for so long i went undiagnosed bc i wasn’t struggling enough for it to be noticed. i’ve done a lot of work to improve at things im impaired at, but i still have a harder time doing those things than others
Others are not more deserving of “social capabilities” than you. You deserve whatever you need to have equitable access (also saying you’re disabled unfortunately doesn’t automatically give you these things anyway🫤). People with invisible disabilities are almost never treated like they’re disabled. If you are impaired or limited due to a condition, you are disabled and it’s okay to call yourself as such