
Most likely your dick is big when it actually matters. Statistically, during erection, big dicks grow less and small dicks grow more, and they’re all about the same during the actual sex. Like my dick when at rest is barely bigger than my thumb, but when it’s time to use it, it’s longer than my hand from palm to middle finger tip, and the difference in width is such that when unerect I can easily fit inside a Gatorade bottle, but not when I’m actually hard. So it doesn’t really matter tbh.