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OnlyPolls 9w
if you didn’t want to hang out with someone anymore and they continue to initiate, what would you do?
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tell them directly
ghost them
keep saying no till asking stops
still hang out w them to be nice
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Anonymous 9w

If I keep saying no and they keep asking, I start feeling bad. And people have done that to me so I’d rather be upfront

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I figured I’d hurt someone more by saying to them “pls stop asking me to hang out. You’re a fine person but I just don’t want to hang out with you.” Like idk I feel like I’d be devastated by hearing that and question everything I may have said or did wrong?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

this is valid. tho, at the same time, it can let someone know ppl who don’t wanna hang out with someone might not be worth the person’s time, and they can focus on people who do enjoy their presence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I totally get that! like if I’m always saying “no” and not even hanging out with them and they continue to ask me to hang out in hopes one day I say yes then I guess I’m forced to tell them I don’t want to hang out.

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