Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Off My Chest icon
Off My Chest 4w
i love spending all of my energy liking someone and thinking about them all the time only to get insanely jealous when they talk to someone else. i’m not letting it show cause ik it’s toxic, but it’s eating me up inside.
comment

5
upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

i really like this person and i want to be in a relationship with them but theyre so much smarter than me, i can barely have an intellectual conversation with them. it’s embarrassing. and i’m not even sure they actually like me like that. like yes they kiss me, we cuddle, they probably think i’m attractive, we’ve had sex, but i’m jealous of a friend theyre close to. i don’t want to be. i should not be this invested in this person ive only really known for about a month or so.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 4w

I understand both of you on a soul deep level. I question myself when it comes to the same thing. I don’t see my partner as “mine”, I deeply enjoy them and am happy when they enjoy me but I have a sting when they get along with someone else. I want my partner to be happy in as many ways as they possibly can, I know it isn’t my soul responsibility to make them happy and other people can make them happy too… it’s just all- Ugh!

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i get that! for me, i know those feelings come from a place of deep insecurity. i thankfully got some affirmation this morning, they just cuddled and kissed me and whatnot, so theres a part of me that knows they at least like me, but i definitely need to work on that jealous part of myself

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

:) other people are cool to yap with but you are the one they are choosing

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

update: they aren’t lmfao. they posted something about sexting someone and they were annoyed with them, but like i really need to just let them go for my own sanity 💀

upvote 1 downvote