I don’t get it either, I’ve met such evil ppl and somehow THEY HAVE PARTNER. the partner is such a sweet person btw. When I used to be on apps, I had to stop cs it’s garbage. You put looking for serious/long term. Guys who ARENT looking for that will change their prof to that so you guys match. He’ll try to get into your pants and use you bc he doesn’t want a girl who also wants the same thing as him. he thinks he’s better than them or smth. Dating nowadays is a joke it’s a dumpster fire tbh.

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AND ANOTHER THING why is it that the people who would genuinely care, who would treat you right never seem to want you back the same? Like ive had multiple experiences where a person I liked didnt feel the same, and yknow once or twice can be managed but consistent back to back to back rejections? Goddamn idk how much more i can take of this shit

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Then if you do manage to talk to a guy you’ll be lucky if it lasts more than a few weeks. Once he realizes he’s not getting his dick wet, he ghosts. Once be realizes he can’t use you or you can’t make things super easy convenient for him he ghosts. God forbid you bring up the idea of a date on a dating app.

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I get it, I’m in the same boat

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