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I am absolutely in love with a girl I’m best friends with and I can’t tell if it’s be because I’m not good at platonic relationships or if I’m actually genuinely in love with her.
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Anonymous 5d

Are you in love with all girls you’re friends with?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Not all of them but my other girl best friend I’m really close with, I was at one point so I’m not sure if I just feel this way once I get really close with a girl or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Have you been in love with someone who’s not a friend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yes my ex but we also started as somewhat friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Maybe your friends just have aspects you would like in a partner?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yeah true, I’m not sure where the cross over is but I def have feelings for friends sometimes. Like you mentioned not all friends but some yes. One but thing is I feel like we could make each other better. I like her parents, we get along great and don’t really disagree on things. I just see the potential for a good future with her. But also I feel like I might j be delusional.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Look into twin flames and soul mates. But everything about that is great for a partner! If they’re into you as well. If they’re not then you know what you’re looking for!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

You may be demisexual. Look into it & see if it aligns for you. If that is the case, sometimes it’s hard not to fall when you are deeply connected with people, so the key to it, really is just making sure that the feels are mutual, and learning ways to cope & sometimes even slightly detach and separate your feels, if it isn’t mutual; In order to protect your own heart.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

you might be right I need to look into this. Thank you for pointing that out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

You’re welcome ☺️. I hope it helps.

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