I fear that if I were to come out as they/she id never have anyone refer to me as they bc she is still an option and while I do still feel connection to womanhood thats not who I am
i'm so sorry, it's genuinely so frustrating, i know someone in a more rural area that had an enby teacher literally get bullied out of the school 😓 i hope you find a place with people who can support you for who you are!!
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Anonymous2h
Omg no because I go by she/they/he and very rarely do I get he and only sometimes but more often not than I do, do I get they. It's annoying sometimes
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Anonymous1d
So by never coming out people aren’t wrong for using only she/her so it’s supposedly less frustrating
But then I’m stuck only being referred to as she/her and I don’t like it and it just feels like this self fulfilling prophecy I’m stuck in
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AnonymousOP1d
And maybe things would be fine if I did come out
But then throw in wanting to be a teacher and I don’t wanna be fired because of transphobia
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AnonymousOP1d
And it’s just getting more and more frustrating being ‘only a woman’