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I have five different labels for my gender and I don’t feel guilty about it anymore! 🙌
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Anonymous 4w

oo what are they?? if you don't mind me asking :3

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Anonymous 4w

Do you use all 5 interchangeable? Or are you like me and even though I am nonbinary, I sometimes feel like a woman and sometimes feel like a man? (Biologically I am intersex, I have a dick but I also have CC breasts 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

For me, it’s genderqueer, nonbinary, agender, gender apathetic, and cassgender :>

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

what is cassgender if you don't mind me asking?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

It’s basically the concept that someone feels their gender is unimportant, irrelevant, or they’re indifferent to the idea of having a gender

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If you’re good answering questions, how is that different to you from gender apathetic?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

So gender apathetic usually pairs with other labels (ex; gender apathetic female, gender apathetic demiboy, etc.) while cassgender USUALLY is a standalone. But the huge difference is that with cassgender, I don’t care about the concept of gender while with gender apathetic, I don’t care how other people perceive my gender because what they see it as is irrelevant to my experience, does that help?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Interesting, the two people I know who use gender apathetic also use agender and nothing else. Fair enough either way!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

So I experience all of them simultaneously, though I USUALLY only tell people I’m genderqueer when I either first meet them or think they may not be fully educated on the subject, and then I give a detailed explanation later down the line

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