i was super scared too.. especially as a nonbinary lesbian on t. but my girlfriend genuinely loves me any way i am and is so supportive of absolutely anything i want to do to affirm my gender. i thought it was damn near impossible but there's someone out there for you, i promise.

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Idk if it will help at all, but I’m a bi woman who leans very strongly towards women. But lately I’ve been realizing about myself that I mainly care about femininity in a person regardless of their gender. I realize that gender would not be what I’d be looking at while being with the other person but just their identity as a whole. So I’m just saying there’s plenty of people who will not be looking at you as something you don’t want them to :3

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Me too

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I’m mostly fem presenting and there are people out there that see you for who you are. I’ve dated guys who completely identify as straight but in our relationship they understand it’s a gay relationships, use partner instead of girlfriend (and boyfriend sometimes because I like that) and they call me handsome. It doesn’t completely get rid of the feeling that the saw me as a girl but I don’t know if anything they could do would.

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