theunseencryptid on Sidechat | I’ve been struggling a lot with dysphoria lately. Even if I get top surgery, most people will probably still call me a woman. I hate it. I hate my chest, I hate my voice, and I hate trying to navigate gendered society. What if I’m never happy?

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theunseencryptid

I’ve been struggling a lot with dysphoria lately. Even if I get top surgery, most people will probably still call me a woman. I hate it. I hate my chest, I hate my voice, and I hate trying to navigate gendered society. What if I’m never happy?

Anonymous 22h

feel this so hard :/ I keep thinking I might stop being called a man once I voice train, but I’m in a waiting room rn and a lady referred to me as a man :/ maybe it’s just confirmation/negativity bias, but still, it sucks so much

Anonymous 15h

i wish society didnt suck as much, my friend who has had top surgery told me about how one time they had their nips out and was still getting she/her-d

Anonymous

#1 22h

It’s not even that I expect people to know. I don’t. I just hope that I become androgynous enough that people call me a guy. It’s still not right but means I’m confusing enough. Closest I got was a few weeks ago when a kid asked if I was a boy or a girl while I was volunteering at Girl Scout camp. That felt nice.

Anonymous

theunseencryptid 22h

I had a kid ask me while I was out on a run (didn’t answer because I was running LMAO) and the only times I get affirmed is if it’s my friends, but my friends don’t determine if I’m “androgynous passing” or not :/ a lot of the time, I wish I could overcorrect just bc I hate being called a guy

Anonymous

#1 22h

I’ve been overcorrecting a lot so I get it. I love wearing skirts and stuff but I’ve felt so uncomfortable lately that I just can’t touch them. I’m trying too hard to be masculine in hopes someone calls me a guy by mistake.

Anonymous

#2 14h

What?? That sucks. I’d probably cry if that happened…