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I want to get top surgery and maybe go on T but at the same time im not a man and there are some parts about going on T that I think might suck. Every time i talk about this tho i feel like that one dumb 2016 Tumblr trans med post lmao
68 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Non-binary Talk. "I want to get top surgery and maybe go on T but at the same time im not a man and there are some parts about going on T that I think might suck. Every time i talk about this tho i feel like that one dumb 2016 Tumblr trans med post lmao"
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Anonymous 1w

A little unrelated im going to rant in the comments here. I am really sick of being called a girl. While I no longer actively hate the way I look anymore, it hurts me so much that the way I look means people will almost always only ever call me female. So much so that even though I know going on T for long enough could change my body into something I might no longer recognize as myself, I want to try it because it MIGHT make other people see me as anything but my fucking pussy.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m nonbinary and recently got top surgery. Thought about going on T but there’s some parts of it I don’t want. I wanted top surgery for years before I got it and I’m super happy that I finally did. Even with top surgery I still pretty much always am assumed to be a girl because of my hair and the way I dress. Which sucks but at the same time I wouldn’t change anything about myself anymore. If other ppl can’t figure out how my identity works that’s their problem

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Anonymous 5d

hi ok I didn't read through your whole rant but that image is so fucking stupid say it with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m so tired of having the conversation of “oh its actually He/They” and nobody listening or not even bringing it up because I’m afraid people wont take me seriously or see me as a joke. It makes me feel genuinely sick to my stomach every time and I cant take it anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I use they/he and get she/her-ed pretty consistently by strangers and assholes, but I’ve surrounded myself with trans and other lgbt friends and I try to take outsiders opinions with a grain of salt because what do they even know about me anyways? I’m nonbinary and I know and my friends know it 🤷. Anyways tldr you aren’t alone and remember other people can’t define you if you don’t let them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Hey this made me tear up a little bit. Thank you man :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ofc, we gotta stick together 🫡. Hope you end up where you wanna be, wherever that is

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Anonymous 1w

Yes, look up testosterone bottom growth or effects of testosterone ftm if you want to look into it/other changes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Oh absolutely lmaoooo thats why i put it lol. Trans med shit is so goddamn idiotic

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