
A little unrelated im going to rant in the comments here. I am really sick of being called a girl. While I no longer actively hate the way I look anymore, it hurts me so much that the way I look means people will almost always only ever call me female. So much so that even though I know going on T for long enough could change my body into something I might no longer recognize as myself, I want to try it because it MIGHT make other people see me as anything but my fucking pussy.
I’m nonbinary and recently got top surgery. Thought about going on T but there’s some parts of it I don’t want. I wanted top surgery for years before I got it and I’m super happy that I finally did. Even with top surgery I still pretty much always am assumed to be a girl because of my hair and the way I dress. Which sucks but at the same time I wouldn’t change anything about myself anymore. If other ppl can’t figure out how my identity works that’s their problem
I use they/he and get she/her-ed pretty consistently by strangers and assholes, but I’ve surrounded myself with trans and other lgbt friends and I try to take outsiders opinions with a grain of salt because what do they even know about me anyways? I’m nonbinary and I know and my friends know it 🤷. Anyways tldr you aren’t alone and remember other people can’t define you if you don’t let them