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always afraid to mention I’m nonbinary in (primarily cis) woman’s spaces because I don’t want to get treated like I’m invading 😭 it feels like people consider us a “third gender” & I don’t want to expose myself to that if I don’t have to
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Anonymous 5h

also the whole “women and nb” or “fems and thems” thing just reads as “cis women and afabs who’s gender we aren’t talking about”

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Anonymous 9m

Fr! When people really ask me I tell them I’m queer because that’s the label I feel fits me best. Otherwise I let them assume I’m a woman because it’s easier and I still do she/her along with they/them

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