Non-binary Talk on Sidechat | Do I need more androgyny? I use they/he pronouns. I’ve recently been criticized for not looking androgynous enough. I’ve grown out a mustache, and long hair because it’s comfortable to me, but I’ve been told to shave my face and that I misrepresent.

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Non-binary Talk 11w

Do I need more androgyny? I use they/he pronouns. I’ve recently been criticized for not looking androgynous enough. I’ve grown out a mustache, and long hair because it’s comfortable to me, but I’ve been told to shave my face and that I misrepresent.

Anonymous 11w

no, look however u want

Anonymous 11w

no, whoever said that to you needs to mind their own business lmao

Anonymous 11w

You don’t owe anyone androgyny.

Anonymous 11w

youre good! your androgynousness actually only has to make sense to you 👍

Anonymous 11w

You don’t have to change anything just do what makes you feel like you

Anonymous 10w

Bby you do whatever makes you feel happy and comfortable. Everyone else can get fucked. Ppl will always feel they have a right to inflict their perception of what other ppl should embody on others and it’s bullshit. You’re doing great lovey 🥰

Anonymous 8w

wtf is wrong with whoever said that to you omg 😭 actually insane work

Anonymous

#5 11w

Plus if every nb person strives to look as androgynous as possible 24/7 then nb just becomes a third box to put people in. Not that there’s anything wrong with wanting to look androgynous but in my opinion part the nonbinary umbrella is not fitting gender boxes so being nb and not looking androgynous is peak.