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Do I need more androgyny? I use they/he pronouns. I’ve recently been criticized for not looking androgynous enough. I’ve grown out a mustache, and long hair because it’s comfortable to me, but I’ve been told to shave my face and that I misrepresent.
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Anonymous 1d

no, look however u want

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Anonymous 12h

no, whoever said that to you needs to mind their own business lmao

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Anonymous 1d

youre good! your androgynousness actually only has to make sense to you 👍

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Anonymous 8h

You don’t owe anyone androgyny.

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Anonymous 9h

You don’t have to change anything just do what makes you feel like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

Plus if every nb person strives to look as androgynous as possible 24/7 then nb just becomes a third box to put people in. Not that there’s anything wrong with wanting to look androgynous but in my opinion part the nonbinary umbrella is not fitting gender boxes so being nb and not looking androgynous is peak.

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