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I wish calling people ma’am/sir wasn’t considered polite🫩 I don’t have much dysphoria until someone calls me ma’am or miss and then it’s just intense dread
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Anonymous 11h

worked in a restaurant where it was considered policy to greet everyone with ma’am/miss or sir and i HATED IT like the few times id have trans people in i was so thankful to see them perk up to being greeted the right way but as a nb myself it always made me icky that it was policy to gender people

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Anonymous 19h

ME TOOO

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Anonymous 10h

Yeah I hate when people call me “miss” at work since I’m a nb cashier and dress femme😭 (even tho I’m wearing my pronouns pin)

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