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Thinking about my gender and how I feel makes me want to cry for hours because even after seven years of being out as trans and using mainly they/he, I still have no fucking clue what I am and it sucks I’m going to bed before I overthink and spiral gn :)
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Anonymous 4w

I vibe with this in a metaphysical level

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Anonymous 2w

I’m kind of in the same place After years of being out and the starting t, I’m realizing I don’t really want to be tied down by a gender but I haven’t a clue what I really am. How I feel changes too often

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Anonymous 18h

you think that changing your gender is gonna fix some trauma or sadness in your heart, it’s not. So when you switch around and nothing changes you feel like you don’t know who you are, but the solution is just to stop thinking about gender and to just be.

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