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im so torn with labels, i've always called myself a nb lesbian, and it's fitting because i will always see my attraction as sapphic, but it also doesn't feel right because im not a woman, does anyone else feel the same way?
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Anonymous 1d

lesbians are generally very gender fucky so I doubt anyone would have a problem with you

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Anonymous 2d

he/him lesbians exist so there is no problem with being a nonbinary lesbian

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Anonymous 1d

It really just depends on your real life community. NB lesbians have existed irl historically, and also some lesbians online will have beef with you for calling yourself that. So it just depends on if that term helps you find the community you are looking for

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Anonymous 1h

ngl i feel the same way towards men and i don’t really know what to call it either so i just don’t use a label

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