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im so torn with labels, i've always called myself a nb lesbian, and it's fitting because i will always see my attraction as sapphic, but it also doesn't feel right because im not a woman, does anyone else feel the same way?
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Anonymous 9w

lesbians are generally very gender fucky so I doubt anyone would have a problem with you

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Anonymous 9w

he/him lesbians exist so there is no problem with being a nonbinary lesbian

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Anonymous 9w

It really just depends on your real life community. NB lesbians have existed irl historically, and also some lesbians online will have beef with you for calling yourself that. So it just depends on if that term helps you find the community you are looking for

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Anonymous 8w

ngl i feel the same way towards men and i don’t really know what to call it either so i just don’t use a label

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

im really feeling like just saying queer most of the time and just telling the straights i'm a lesbian so they get the point

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