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So I’m like in this cross hair of thinking I’m a FTM and NB and I don’t know what I am anymore. Can someone explain and help me?
36 upvotes, 6 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Non-binary Talk. "So I’m like in this cross hair of thinking I’m a FTM and NB and I don’t know what I am anymore. Can someone explain and help me?"
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Anonymous 1d

I can’t presume to know your identity or how you feel but what helped me find mine was honestly just learning more labels. Like I know trans masc is a label that they/he people who feel masc but not fully male use

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Anonymous 1d

Demi boy maybe? That’s one I’ve used, right now I just identify with trans masc

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Anonymous 9h

Demi boy- someone who is partially connected to boyhood. You could also be a non binary person who falls on the masculine side of the gender spectrum. The masculine side of the gender spectrum includes man, genders that are connected to manhood but aren’t man, and genders that have nothing to do with being a man but still are masculine.

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Anonymous 1d

What’s helpful for me in this situation (I’m constantly in the middle of figuring it out too) is to think about what makes you most comfortable, what labels work for you like pronouns, if someone perceives you as a guy or a person, and it’s honestly a journey. I think sometimes labels can be limiting, it feels like you have to be one thing or the other but honestly, just do what feels good for you! Try new things out with people you trust to see what works!

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Anonymous 1d

I had this struggle, then I became a Demi-boy

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Anonymous 1d

transmasc nonbinary babey💪 but in all seriousness u do not have to microlabel yourself. just be who you are, whatever communities you see yourself the most in will find you with time!

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