i’m T4T personally and that’s the only way i’ve found that they actually respect my identity as a trans man. my partner is nb and we’ve been dating for years with zero misgendering issues

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I gave up ngl

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i find it helpful to be friends with someone before even considering dating them so you can vibe check them first

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Bro don’t tell anyone your deadname. It’s not ur name and if u don’t want to be called it then it’s not their business to know. We learned in kindergarten to call others what they want to be called. If they keep asking for your deadname tell them a fake one and don’t talk to them again…

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Be friends with people first, or try dating queer people where they are slightly more likely to understand why that isn’t okay

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ask friends to set you up with someone if you don’t know anyone you’re interested in :p

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