Agreed. It’s less weird than defaulting to him or her in my opinion. And when they do correct me, i usually note it mentally or on a literal document of names and pronouns i keep (yeah i know that’s weird but my memory sucks)

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It's a good default, sometimes I just can't process fast enough to generate the accurate pronouns. But it does sometimes upset people sadly

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whenever im reading something and the author uses “he” or “she” for a person whose gender doesn’t matter, it sticks out and really rubs me the wrong way

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