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Non-binary Talk 9w
So many people assume I want to be androgynous because I’m non binary, but I don’t. Yes I am non binary but I’m also a woman and I like being feminine and wear feminine things but they just don’t get it.
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Anonymous 9w

thank you, yes, i am very pretty and feminine and cute, and in some ways i am a woman, but i am not a woman. im nonbinary. it feels like a lot of people assume im a binary trans girl, and only affirm my femininity, and it feels so weird. (even when my pronouns are they/she)

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Anonymous 9w

i lost years off of my transition trying to adhere to the androgynous propaganda

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Anonymous 9w

Yeah people don’t understand that femininity/masculinity DO NOT equal gender, and it pmo

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Anonymous 9w

SHE/THEY SOLIDARITY!!!!!! Like I don’t understand what im feeling completely either like I’m a beautiful woman but also no im not.

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Anonymous 9w

i don’t agree with saying i’m both nonbinary and a woman cause…i’m not a woman. i’m and AFAB nonbinary who looks super feminine. i’m not fr trying, but saying i’m not trying hard enough to “look masculine” or “nonbinary” because i wear a dress is an extremely wild thing tho. stay safe out here baddies

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Anonymous 9w

Same! I mean there are some days that I dissociate out of my body, but I’m starting to realize they’re outliers and that most days I just wanna dress a certain way, and mix it up when I feel like it

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Anonymous 7w

Nb and fem afab here. I think of myself as a femboy but it’s so bad when people don’t know that because they just see fem afab. I’m not a woman and I don’t want to be, I’m just fem

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Anonymous 8w

Fr where im at ive just never thought of it like that ty😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

for me gender is both I am non-binary and I am also a woman they are not separate they are together. (they/she pronouns)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

There are non binary people that don’t understand that and it’s really upsetting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I’m afab but I have the same problem where people just completely ignore me being non-binary when I’m both non-binary and a woman! (They/she as well)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

I’m AFAB so I haven’t transitioned (nor do I want to) but I’m so sorry that you lost those years!

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Anonymous replying to -> cringing 9w

the “not trying hard enough” thing is a transphobic talking point that somehow infiltrated queer spaces, and it’s so frustrating to hear that from people in-community x_x I don’t get how people apply it to us when they never apply it to cis/binary people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

i am also afab! i had some sort of inner obligation to “pass” but realized eventually i liked to be fem🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

omg fellow NB femboy!! based minus how people misperceive you :/

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