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Stuck between being nonbinary and being desired by the general population without being seen as Woman Lite. Like it feels like I won’t be able to get an average guy unless the average guy gets really cool about a bunch of stuff really quickly
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Anonymous 19h

pretty much, this is why I normally date queer people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

It’s kind of a gamble where I am. It’s a mixed bag of cool queer people and greasy, sheltered ‘smol bean’ vibes people. I just want a normal guy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I’ve known bi guys who are just normal guys but bi, honestly worth seeking them out or asking your friends if they know someone like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

I feel the exact same way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

I’m literally the same way but opposite, I want someone who actually sees me for my gender but the only people I find who do are the sheltered, detached from reality queers. I need someone who can be accepting and cool but also like handle a full time job and function on their own yk?

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