Non-binary Talk on Sidechat | I don’t know how or when to tell the guy i’m dating that i’m nonbinary. he already knows im bi (i think) and he can see that my pronouns are they/she on my insta, but i don’t think he’d react well if i stated it

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Non-binary Talk 1d

I don’t know how or when to tell the guy i’m dating that i’m nonbinary. he already knows im bi (i think) and he can see that my pronouns are they/she on my insta, but i don’t think he’d react well if i stated it

Anonymous 1d

It should be very very early on in the relationship imo

Anonymous 1d

Just tell him you’re nonbinary, if he doesn’t accept that you ain’t gonna have a good time in the relationship anyway. My bf is a straight dude, we had talked about gender before but english isn’t his first language so he didn’t understand what I was. So even though he’s attracted to women, I am his exception, he supports me and uses my name and pronouns. So all you should say is you’re nonbinary, maybe explain what it is specifically to u, he finds it weird, leave him.

Anonymous

#1 1d

i mean it kinda is. we’re not officially bf “gf” yet, just dating

Anonymous

OP 1d

I think he should be aware of it before you try to make it official for sure. The longer you hide it from him the more upset or disappointed he could be, if he turns out to not be into nonbinary people, and then both of your time would be wasted Just something to consider

Anonymous

#1 1d

do you have any idea about how i could start that conversation?

Anonymous

OP 1d

Not really honestly, I put my gender in my dating profiles so everyone knows what they’re getting into when they first see me You kinda just have to come out and say it, like hey before we keep going I need to tell you something, I’m not a woman I’m a nonbinary person or something like that And hope he’s chill with it