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the idea of dating as nonbinary/trans is so scary like what if my partner only sees me as AFAB (even if they don’t say it)
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Anonymous 12w

This limits your dating pool, but dating other genderqueer people will probably make this less of an issue

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Anonymous 12w

We are in the same boat twin :(

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Anonymous 12w

Been with my partner for a little under a year and I have to say that being with another genderqueer person, as one other commenter suggested, makes this so much easier. It’s also just easier in terms of relating to things.

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Anonymous 12w

it’s scary ye, but if you think you would be happier if you had a partner, then you should go for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

probably, nevertheless i think it’ll always be a bit scary for me though (at least for the time being)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

we’ll get through it twin🤞

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

me three twin

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Also. I have noticed in my peers and in myself that trans people tend to move very fast when getting with each other because it’s so hard to find people to relate to that when you DO find that person AND you’re extremely into them, everything feels right and things just click.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

we are u-haul enbies, if you will

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